We would like to thank the referee for their fast and insightful comments, which have helped improve the quality of this paper. The simulations in this work have been carried out on the Snellius supercomputer, hosted by the Dutch national high performance computing centre SURF. About 1.2 million CPU hours have been used for the simulations. Additional CPU hours have been used for tests, reruns, and analysis, putting the total at ~2 million. The AMD Rome 7H12 CPUs use 280 W, with 64 cores each, putting the total power usage at 8.75 MWh, about two to three times the yearly electricity usage of an average household. SURF runs fully on renewable energy. MJCW is supported by the Nederlandse Onderzoekschool voor Astronomie under project number 10.2.5.12. CCC is supported by a Canada Graduate Scholarship - Doctoral from the Natural Sciences and Engineering Research Council of Canada. AT was partly supported by National Aeronautics and Space Administration FINESST 80NSSC21K1383, and a National Aeronautics and Space Administration Cooperative Agreement awarded to the New York Space Grant Consortium. AT and M-MML acknowledge partial funding from National Science Foundation grant AST18-15461. We would like to thank the rest of the torch team for interesting discussions and a pleasant collaboration, including Sabrina Appel, Will Farner, Joe Glaser, Ralf Klessen, Stephen McMillan, and Alison Sills. We also want to thank the amuse team for their continuing development of the framework, especially Inti Pelupessy and Steven Rieder.